You can be happy!

February 6, 2014 in Blog, Emotional Healing, Emotional Healing Training, Forgiveness

Do you ever feel like…

Nothing I do or don’t do will make me happy.  I’m destined to be sad FOREVER. I think something will make me happy, but nothing will.  Therefore, I will never be happy…

Maybe you’re not happy with your job, a situation, just life in general… We all have those moments when we feel like we will never be happy again. Think of a child (or adult) throwing a tantrum, at that moment, they genuinely believe that they may never ever be happy again… Maybe it’s because they didn’t get their way, or maybe because of a significant trauma. But genuine joy is possible. Read the rest of this entry →

3 Statements that Heal Everything (by Paige Cargioli)

January 24, 2014 in Blog, Emotional Healing, Emotional Healing Training, Forgiveness

3statments3That’s right, there are only three statements, well, forms of statements that can heal everything. They are 1) I forgive myself (for believing)... 2) I forgive others (whoever that person(s) is in your life that you need to forgive)… and 3) I give others permission to forgive me (when I hurt them the same way I was/am/hurt)… Combining these statements together creates holistic, past, present, and future healing.

Present: I forgive myself…

This might be kind of strange to start with, but forgiving yourself should be the easiest thing you can do (you’re the only person involved here!). However, I say “should” because, well, it’s not always so easy. Forgiving yourself is often the last part of healing anyone ever thinks of, especially if this forgiveness also involves someone else. One of the way EPTworks frames this forgiveness statement is usually with a qualifier, for example, “I forgive myself for believing…”

For example, when something bad happens to me, or I make a mistake, it may cause me to believe something negative about myself that reinforces repetition of the issue. If I believe I am a victim, I may continue to be victimized. If I believe I am unloveable, I will not feel love. If I believe I have no control, I may constantly be looking for places in my life where I can control. Until I forgive myself for believing these negative things about myself, how can I heal from them? How can I get over them? Even if someone else supported the cause of these negative belief patterns, I still have the power to forgive and let go of how I treat myself regardless of how someone else treats me.

Forgiveness of self empowers and helps survivors completely heal. There is often opposition to forgiveness in abusive situations, that is to say, if I forgive, I will continue to be hurt or victimized. Forgiving oneself protects against this, because as soon as I let go of and forgive the belief that I deserve a certain situation, or that it’s my fault, or that I can’t change, I am able to walk away and potentially break the cycle. And all this can happen before even considering the next statement!

Think about what you might believe to keep you in negative patterns, pain, and illness, and forgive yourself for believing it.

Past: I forgive others…

This is what most people think of when they think of forgiveness.

I forgive you.

Well, we know that’s not true based on the first statement. Forgiveness is much more multifaceted, but as annoying as forgiving another person can be, it is also necessary to do in order to heal everything. No man is an island. No one lives in a vacuum. So, there is always someone else to blame for our problems, issues, pain, etc etc etc. Even if I, all myself self, make a mistake, there is so much at work you may not even be aware of that might have caused you to make that “mistake.”

Take, for example, whatever is generationally or genetically (?) at work in a family, and then there is a teenage pregnancy. Usually, the situation is not an isolated event. More often than not, the mother also had a teenage pregnancy, maybe an aunt or a grandmother or a sister… There is always someone else. Same goes for lots of familial patterns. One would think that we would learn from our history… But alas.

In this example, the girl who got pregnant unexpectedly as a teenager may have, first, just believed, based on her familial/generational examples and patterns that this is just what girls do. Then, she may need for forgive whoever (mom, grandma, aunt) for teaching her (not explicitly) to get pregnant as a teenager, and she may need to forgive whoever else was involved at the time of pregnancy, maybe even (generationally) the men that would have been involved.

The list of people and feelings that need to be forgiven can go on and on. EPTworks helps to pin-point the exact time period and people involved that established a negative pattern and forgive the specific issues related to the pattern in order to move on and heal completely.

Other patterns that might exist? Cancer, suicide, abuse, divorce, or addiction… What and who do you have in your life that you know you need to forgive for establishing negative belief patterns in your life?

Future: I give others permission to forgive me…

This is probably the strangest and least intuitive statement, but it really rounds out the process. This statement is tough, because it is essentially saying, “I give other permission to forgive me, when I do the exact same thing to them!”

I hate to admit this to myself, but I do the exact same things to others that I hate. If I believe I am alone or unloveable, then maybe I will push people away, or be a regular downer (making no one want to be around me). I will do things to others that potentially could make them feel unloved or alone. In my negative selfish pattern, I end up doing to others what someone else did to me, and them blame them?! What is wrong with me?

Like forgiving myself is present oriented, forgiving other is past oriented, giving others permission to forgive me is future oriented. I am anticipating that I will make a mistake, and allowing the other person(s) to forgive me for all the times I do (from the time of the originating event until the end of time).

Where in your life might you be doing the exact same thing to someone else that you dislike or do to yourself to keep negative patterns?

There you have it…

Those are three statements that heal everything. Forgiveness crossing time and space, life and death, and all that jazz. Practicing well-rounded forgiveness is exactly what EPTworks is all about. Not just to heal the past, but to launch you into a happier future.

-By Paige Cargioli

(@paigecargioli, asceticpaige.wordpress.com, BetterLifeHealing.com)

WARNING! Two Things That Stop You From Manifesting Your Dream Life (Part 2)

January 3, 2014 in Business

So you know exactly what you want.

You have mapped out your dream life full of all the experiences you still haven’t enjoyed fully. Well you may be surprised to learn there are only two primary things that can stop you from creating your dream life. In my previous blog, I talked about the first thing. If you missed that one, go back and check it out. The second thing is so normal for you that it has become a part of your life. You just haven’t realized how deadly it is to your reaching the fulfillment of your dreams.

Warning! One More Thing That Will Stop You From Manifesting Your Dream Life

What makes you “CRAZY” in your closest relationships: There are relationships you are in right now that have the power to distract you by making you “crazy”. It may be your mother or your husband or a friend. Think about what really makes you crazy within the closest relationships in your life. By crazy, I mean situations that really get you churning emotionally. They get you churning so much that you stop focusing on your dream. Once your emotional churning starts, you get caught up in self doubt, disappointment, anger and depression. In that moment you give up your dream for these lower frequency feelings. Then you wonder why your dream is not manifesting. To the degree that you let your relationships churn this kind of “crazy” in your life, you will effectively stop the manifestation of your dream life. You have to be aware when you are drifting into “crazy-land” and gently remind yourself to re-focus on your dreams. Keeping your attention on where you are going and how you will feel when you get there is a key component to manifesting your dream life. Do some EPTworks™ to help you determine exactly what your “crazy” is and release it with forgiveness.

  • I forgive myself for believing I have to go “crazy” when “this” happens in my life.
  • I forgive myself for giving up on my dream when “this” happens in my life
  • I forgive myself for letting this situation stop me from focusing on my dream life.
  • I forgive myself for giving up my dreams because of this situation.
  • I forgive my family for feeling uncomfortable with my dreams.
  • I forgive myself for believing I will lose love if I pursue my dreams
  • I give myself permission to let go of the “crazy” and to keep focusing on my dreams.
  • Without this pattern, I am free to be aware of the “crazy” as a sign that I am closer than ever to achieving my dreams and this “crazy” can’t stop me any more.

Become aware of this pattern of distraction in your life and choose to release it with forgiveness and acceptance.

Get ready to see your dreams come true!

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WARNING! Two Things That Stop You From Manifesting Your Dream Life (Part 1)

January 3, 2014 in Business

So, you know exactly what you want.

You have mapped out your dream life full of all the experiences you still haven’t enjoyed fully. You may even have a fancy vision board with pictures of all the cool stuff you’ve decided to manifest in your life. This is simple, right? All you have to do is keep your focus on your dream long enough and it will eventually appear.

The reality is you have a drawer full of dreams that you have never manifested and it’s been too long. It’s time to take another look at where you are stuck and exactly what is keeping you from driving to your dream destination in life.

Warning! Here’s the first thing that will stop you from manifesting your dream life:

Fear of rejection or failure:

When someone fails to respond favorably to you, it feels terrible to you. This fear probably started when you were little. Someone you love responded to your request or attention with anger or scorn. It was an awful experience for you and you never want to feel that way again. You want only experiences that keep you from feeling the little kid in you that’s still afraid “I’m not good enough.” In other words, you can only handle the experiences where people are turning flips for you and loving everything you do. You just can’t handle the people who don’t understand you and what you do or flat out don’t like you or what you have to give. You are so afraid of this experience that you unconsciously push people or clients away so you don’t have to go through this terrible experience over and over and over again. By pushing people away, you prevent the manifestation of great love relationships. By pushing clients away, you prevent the manifestation of your dream business. Do some EPTworks™ to discover where the root of this fear of rejection exists and forgive.

  • I forgive myself for believing I just can’t handle the terrible experience of a someone not liking me.
  • I forgive myself for believing I can only feel good with clients who adore me and tell me how great I am.
  • I forgive myself for believing I have to push clients away from me so I can avoid this awful experience of rejection.
  • I forgive my parent for rejecting me.
  • I forgive myself for avoiding love relationships because I can’t handle rejection.
  • I forgive myself for letting my fear of the memory of an awful experience attract terrible life partners.
  • I forgive myself for using my client relationships as a way to take away my fear that I’m still not good enough.
  • I give myself permission to have a mindset to “go to give” from the well of wholeness that exists within me that I also see existing in each of my clients whether they reject me or love me.
  • I forgive myself for letting this deep fear that I’m still not good enough cause me to push people away so I won’t get hurt.
  • I forgive myself for letting this deep fear of this terrible experience (rejection) cause me to give up my power to go for my dream.

In next weeks blog, I will tell you what the second thing is that will stop you from manifesting your dream life.

10 Natural Cures For Sick Kids

October 16, 2013 in Blog, Emotional Healing, Health, Nutrition

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Chronic coughs, runny noses, sore throats, headaches, tummy aches–with five kids, I’ve seen it all.  My youngest is now a senior in high school and I am proud to say, we never had to treat our sick kids with antibiotics or medical intervention.  We have developed a good reputation in our community, providing natural health care to children. While vitamin C and plenty of water are always recommended for infections, I’m giving you 10 more amazing natural cures you can use to help your sick kids.

1)  Apple cider vinegar

This is an amazing cure for strep throat, one of the most common kid sicknesses.  D.C. Jarvis, M.D. documented his research using apple cider vinegar to heal strep throat and other health problems in his book Folk Medicine: a New England Almanac of natural health care from a noted Vermont country doctor.  The minute your child starts complaining of a sore throat, have him drink 1 teaspoon of apple cider vinegar in a glass of water every couple of hours.  If he can gargle and swallow, it will minimize the pain of the sore throat.  Dr. Jarvis claimed to be able to change a positive strep culture to negative in 24 hours or less using apple cider vinegar.

2)  Colloidal silver

You can pick this up at any health food store.  It is a tasteless liquid that can be used to prevent sickness as well as helping the body heal from sickness.  It is safe for babies and small children.  It can be used directly in the ear with a drop of olive oil for ear infections.  It is very effective in resolving the pain, infection and inflammation of pink eye or any eye problem.  It is safe and soothing to drop into the eye to aid with infections.  Skin infections also respond very well with colloidal silver.

3)  Eliminate dairy

This won’t cost you anything.  Just in case you didn’t know, kids with chronic ear/nose/throat infections are usually sensitive to dairy.  I’ve seen so many chronically sick kids get well and stay well by simply eliminating all dairy.  You can substitute milk these days with almond milk, coconut milk, or rice milk.

4)  Probiotics

These are the good little bacterial army of scavengers that love to eat all the “dead stuff” your immune system went after. That dead stuff becomes excess mucous for your body to unload.  You can find probiotics at any store that carries supplements; even your local Walgreens.  This supplement will clean up the “mess” of getting over an infection and help the colon stay healthy, too.

5)  Gently rub temples for 30-60 seconds

A fever is the bodies way of killing the bacterial or viral invaders. A fever is your child’s immune system doing it’s job to protect your child.  Dr. Robert Mendelsohn, acclaimed pediatrician and author gives solid advice on when it is advisable to lower a child’s fever.  We learned that you can give your child a 15-20 minute break from a fever by gently rubbing her temples for 30-60 seconds.  This gives the child a short break from the fever without interfering with her immune systems natural defense mechanism.

6)  Peppermint oil

With colds and fever often come headaches.  Use peppermint oil on the temples, forehead, under the nose and a little on the tongue to alleviate the pain of headaches. (be careful to avoid getting it in the eyes as it will sting)  You can also rub peppermint oil on the tummy for tummy aches.

7)  Fenugreek tea

Fenugreek tea is an amazing helper when it comes to excess mucous from sinus, throat and lung infections.  You can buy it in tincture form or tea bag form.  Drink three cups of fenugreek tea per day to relieve the sinus and lymphatic congestion.

8)  Kali Sulph 6x

This is a micro-nutrient known as a cell salt.  Kali sulph is fantastic for eliminating that last bit of croupie cough your child carries around.  It is also good to give for the basic common cold. Take 3-6 three times per day until symptoms are gone.  These are tiny supplements that are dissolved under the tongue.

9)  Kali Phos 6x

Another cell salt, Kali phos is an ancient remedy for those who feel as though they are “falling apart”.  Children who are fretful with chronic headaches or stomach aches can usually benefit from Kali Phos.  It provides micro nutrition to the nervous system to support it in helping the child feel stronger and more able to cope with the stress of life.  A child can take 6 three times a day and as needed for nervousness that causes anxiety and stomach upset.

10) Get regular spinal adjustments

Chiropractic care is about maintaining your structure to positively influence your function.  It’s not just about back pain, but an overall holistic approach to body health.  When your body structure is aligned, your body function is improved.  Chronically sick kids who get adjusted regularly, always get well faster and stay well longer.

If you know some dynamite natural health cures for kids; share them below in the comments. I’d love to hear from you!

The Secret to Being a Great Healer

October 9, 2013 in Forgiveness

Don’t you love learning faster, amazing ways of helping someone heal?  The more techniques, tricks and remedies you learn, the more you realize how infinite healing resources are. As you learn more and more, your healing bag becomes full and overflowing with incredible ideas, techniques and remedies to help people get well.

While great techniques can help people heal.  A great technique is not the secret to being a great healer.

The secret to being a great healer is your relationship with God.  Realize that you are not the source that creates healing.  Rather, it is your relationship with your divine source that allows you to  manifest healing at every level.

My favorite prayer to remind myself that God is the healer:

“God I can’t do it. Please do it for me.”

Use this prayer when you are healing others and you will experience even greater joy, peace and deeper understanding of God’s love for you and those you serve.

Cultivate a meaningful relationship with God, through meditation, silence, prayer, praise and worship. Create a discipline to do this on a daily basis as though this relationship matters to you. Drink daily from the well of your divine source.  It is in this divine relationship that you will know the secret to being a great healer.

Share your favorite ways of meeting with God in your life.  I’d love to hear.

Warning New Students Moving at Light Speed!!

October 2, 2013 in Blog, Business, Emotional Healing, Emotional Healing Training, Forgiveness

By Sherry Hamilton

I want new students of EPTworks™ to realize that when first learning the bulk of information and new skills needed to practice, you may feel like you are going slow, but you really are going at light-speed and you WILL do amazing things even as a beginner.  I remember leaving my first class almost 20 years ago, and feeling very slow at using the techniques– especially compared with Dr. Annette, the inventor of EPTworks™.  Even though she is my sister, I craved her encouragement that I could “do” EPTworks™ and help others in the way she had helped me.  She was confident that as a new practitioner, I could accomplish amazing outcomes.

The week after my first class I had my first paying client.  She was a 16 year old girl referred by a chiropractor.  The girl sat in front of me and told me her problem, “I sit down at the dinner table.  Then I have to go throw up before I can actually eat.  This has been going on daily for about two years.”  She explained how the doctors had been unable to help her control this.  She had been scoped from both ends, and she was feeling very upset.  She had visible scars on her face and arms.  She had been thrown threw a car windshield two years before and had been through several surgeries as well as still having glass coming out of some of her scars.  This car wreck happened the day before she was going to have an interview at a modeling agency.  The wreck changed the course of her life and the scars from the wreck changed any hope for her to be a model.

I had my EPTworks™ manual opened and my flow charts laying on the table beside her as I wrote down her story.  I began to methodically go through the steps one by one that I had learned a week earlier in class:  “Find It.  Fix It.  Forgive It.”  I remember working for one hour and the idea that she believed her whole life had been ruined because of this car wreck.  I had her repeat, “I forgive myself for believing my whole life is ruined because of this wreck and because I missed out on being a model.”  I kept going with EPTworks™.  Finding imbalance in her emotional body, placing the magnets as directed by the body, directing her to breathe, and then stating specific forgiveness.  She came back one more time a week later.  She said that she had only thrown up one time in that week!  This was a huge improvement from her previous experience, and she was much happier and more relaxed.

It has been almost 20 years since I took my first class to learn how to “do” EPTworks™ for myself and for my children. I attained that goal.  Beyond that I have hundreds to thousands of amazing stories where I got to help others in their healing using my skills with EPTworks™.  “Thank-you” to my sister for teaching and encouraging me to keep on practicing and helping others!!  It is an amazing journey.  And now I get to help others learn how to “do” EPTworks™!!  Thanks again Dr. Annette!

EPTworks™ BusinessWorks is a three-day training that helps you with these three steps to uncover the gold that exists in you and your business right now.

  • Sign up to attend and you will get hands on attention to expand your business.
  • Individual sessions with Dr. Annette Cargioli allows you to break through the invisible barriers that are holding you back
  • Individual sessions with Penny Langely allow you to dream a bigger dream and actually see the reality of your dreams coming true before you leave this three days.
  • This is an exclusive event. We limit our training to no more than 10 people.
  • If you are ready and looking for ways to love your business more and take your success to the next level; EPTworks™ BusinessWorks is for you!

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Get Your Super Healing Machine!

September 4, 2013 in Blog, Emotional Healing, Emotional Healing Training, Health

In China there are master healers known as chi gong masters.  These are healers who have mastered an ancient art of hands on healing that is well known and respected in in the Asian world. The energy they master and emit from their hands is called “chi”.  Way back in the 80’s, someone got the idea to see if the “chi energy” these master healers emitted from their hands could be measured and then copied in a machine that anyone could use.  Chi Gong masters were brought into a sound studio one at a time. Microphones were placed over the palms of the healer’s hands while he was instructed to emit “chi energy”.  What the researchers found was that the frequency of sound of the “chi energy” was measurable.  It was chaotic, bouncing up and down in an unpredictable rhythm but staying within a particular hertz range.

The first Chi Gong machine was also called a “chaos machine”.  Chi Gong masters reported their ability to emit “chi energy” more consistently and for longer periods of time was enhanced when they used the machine on themselves during healing sessions.

There has been tons of healing success and documented scientific research using this ingenious subtle energy generator. Over the years, there has been continued improvements in the technology and clinical applications. This machine is now known as the Infratonic 9.  You can find detailed research at www.soundvitality.com

Infratonic therapy helps:

  • Dissolve cellular trauma (emotional and physical)
  • Relieve pain
  • Relieve subluxation
  • Facilitates deep massage
  • Enhances local circulation
  • Increases energy level
  • Dramatically reduce inflammation
  • Increase production of hyaluronic acid
  • Speed muscle cell healing

Infratonic placement for specific emotions:

  • Rage: lower right abdomen
  • Anger:  Liver (front or back)
  • Grief:  lower left abdomen
  • Betrayal:  spleen and pancreas
  • Survival/fear/trauma:  coccyx
  • Fear:  sacrum
  • Depression: crown of head
  • Emotional clenching:  solar plexus
  • Anxiety:  heart

The Fear Protocol:  use 10 minutes over sacrum followed by 20 minutes over heart (2 weeks)

The Anger/Grief Protocol:  Apply to abdominal discomfort/tightness for 10 minutes then use 10 minutes over sacrum and then use 10 minutes over heart

The Pelvic Floor Rage Protocol:  Apply to lower right abdomen just outside pubic bone for 10 minutes, then sacrum for 10 minutes, then heart for 20 minutes. (2 weeks)  relieves chronic prostate infections, cystitis, cramps, bladder infections.

The Mind Congestion Protocol:  Apply to solar plexus 10 minutes followed by 10 minutes on sacrum then 20 minutes on heart.

I’d love to hear ways you have used the Infratonic 9 to enhance healing.  Please leave your comments.

If you don’t have one of these awesome healing devices, you can buy it from  The Cargioli Center with a $100 discount for $625.  Just call our office to order. 317-585-9410

 

 

How EPTworks™ Healed My Cookie Addiction by Sherry Hamilton

August 28, 2013 in Blog, Emotional Healing, Forgiveness, Story

A Healing Story

EPTworks is a healing technology applied through the doorway of your emotions.  My sister, Dr. Annette Cargioli DC was developing this foundational system of “Find It-Fix It-Forgive It” in 1994 when she shared her discoveries with me.  She asked me if I had an issue in my life I struggled with and just couldn’t seem to get over.  Monthly I would bake cookies and eat them until I was sick.  I had been doing this for as long as I could remember.  I had tried so many ways to control this behavior, to overcome it, and to ignore it, just to give in, and end up sick in bed waiting for the effects of the binge to pass.  Annette began her work on me using muscle response testing and deductive dialogue to assess an unconscious reason for this self-sabotaging behavior.  She applied some biofield corrections (using magnets) and gave me some forgiveness statements to repeat.  During the 40 minute session, I cried because the issues were highly emotional for me.  At the conclusion of this first session, I felt lighter, and wondered what would happen with my next binge episode.  I didn’t experience a need to binge for 10 months!  I felt free and knew that I wanted more Emotional Polarity Technique!  More work was applied and more aspects of my emotional issues with food came forward till I got over it for good.

Keep Moving Forward by Sherry Hamilton

August 14, 2013 in Blog, Emotional Healing, Forgiveness

Photo by Jenn Ocken Photography

I feel resistance to change strongly and have often described this feeling like trying to shove a square peg into a round hole, it just hurts and gets shaved off on the corners as the ill-fitted peg is forced into the round space.  Changes are forced into compliance in a new life habit.

When you feel resistance to change or to being good to yourself rather than destructive to yourself, then you are right where you need to be. You are at the doorway of challenging and changing your view, and your feelings about what you are doing, and your way of life!!  Keep moving forward with love toward yourself, with gratitude for your freedom to choose and to know what to choose even when you feel resistance toward it– keep doing it.  Find others who are successful in changing from destructive habits to life-giving, get good tools like EPTworks and keep praying and keep trying again and again. You can do it. I believe in you.

Forgiveness for giving up in the face of resistance and remaining powerless to change:

  • I forgive myself for seeing resistance as a wall rather than a doorway for my good.
  • I forgive myself for believing all resistance is bad, unsafe, not allowed and off limits.
  • I forgive myself for believing I can’t feel any different, and this resistance will always be with me.
  • I forgive myself for believing I will never get over my feeling of resistance and feel comfort in this new space.
  • I forgive myself for holding onto powerlessness because of what has changed in my life and what I can never get back.
  • I forgive myself for holding onto sadness and loss to keep myself stuck in resistance to a new life.
  • I forgive myself for believing resistance is more powerful than my choice to love myself and others in my new space.
  • I forgive myself for allowing resistance to keep me from loving myself and serving others with my gifts and talents.
  • I forgive myself for believing there is nothing for me on the other side of this resistance.
  • I forgive myself for deciding I can’t do this and for remaining stuck in resistance.
  • I give others permission to forgive me for using my feeling of resistance as an excuse to let them down.  I forgive others for using their feelings of resistance as a reason to remain distant and disconnected.
  • I forgive myself for believing there is no impasse to my feeling of resistance in this matter.
  • I forgive others for believing the same thing so that we remain isolated from loving communication.
  • I give myself permission to raise my level of acceptance to my resistance to facing my own resistance in any matter in my life.
  • I give myself permission to raise my level of acceptance to my own resistance to loving and communicative relationships in my family, my community, and in each person I meet in this world.
  • I give myself permission to raise my level of acceptance to my own resistance for holding me back from personal growth and achievement.
  • I choose to increase my feelings of gratitude for what resistance teaches me and how resistance challenges me to increase my courage for continued growth and expansion of love and service in my life.