Get What You Want Now

February 27, 2014 in Business by Annette

When my kids were much younger, they would talk about how they wanted to go to visit Disney World.  I had them close their eyes and imagine packing for our trip, going to the airport, getting bumped up to first class, getting all the cookies and drinks they want on the plane, seeing Mickey greet them. You get the idea.  Their faces would relax and light up as they imagined this amazing trip.  I asked them how it feels.  They would sigh and smile and assure me it was an amazing feeling.  It’s that “feeling” of getting what we want as though we already have it that keeps our attention focused on what we want.  Those good “feelings” are actually neural representations in our brain.  To get what you want now, you must create positive neural representations that are the signals that you already have what you want.  You have to imagine it with good feelings.

Create new neural representations to remind you of what you want now. This is where you are driving to. What do you see, hear, and feel when you get where you are going and get what you want now?

This is to remind you to keep your attention on where you are going and how you will look, how good you will feel and what you will hear when you get there.

Remember, you have a destination in mind for your life and business.  You have to “drive”, take action to get from where you are to where you are going.  You can no longer allow the current or past trauma to take all of your attention. Failure in a previous life situation can no longer keep you stranded on the side of the road staring and feeling afraid and helpless.  Hurt or humiliation from childhood can no longer take away your license to drive where you have chosen to go.

God has given you the keys to drive, to choose what you want to do with your life, to choose where you put your attention.  It is time to use that power God has given to you to decide exactly where you are going and then to put your attention on why you are going there, what you will do there and how you will feel there.

Show yourself the same compassion God has shown you when you feel stuck staring at the wreck on the side of the road.  Give the wreck a blessing and get back in the car and drive because you don’t have to stay here anymore.  You get to go to a new place that offers you more pleasure and life fulfillment and freedom.  It is in going from here to there; you get to experience more of the power of God’s love for you and that is really what you want right now.

WARNING! Two Things That Stop You From Manifesting Your Dream Life (Part 2)

January 3, 2014 in Business by Annette

So you know exactly what you want.

You have mapped out your dream life full of all the experiences you still haven’t enjoyed fully. Well you may be surprised to learn there are only two primary things that can stop you from creating your dream life. In my previous blog, I talked about the first thing. If you missed that one, go back and check it out. The second thing is so normal for you that it has become a part of your life. You just haven’t realized how deadly it is to your reaching the fulfillment of your dreams.

Warning! One More Thing That Will Stop You From Manifesting Your Dream Life

What makes you “CRAZY” in your closest relationships: There are relationships you are in right now that have the power to distract you by making you “crazy”. It may be your mother or your husband or a friend. Think about what really makes you crazy within the closest relationships in your life. By crazy, I mean situations that really get you churning emotionally. They get you churning so much that you stop focusing on your dream. Once your emotional churning starts, you get caught up in self doubt, disappointment, anger and depression. In that moment you give up your dream for these lower frequency feelings. Then you wonder why your dream is not manifesting. To the degree that you let your relationships churn this kind of “crazy” in your life, you will effectively stop the manifestation of your dream life. You have to be aware when you are drifting into “crazy-land” and gently remind yourself to re-focus on your dreams. Keeping your attention on where you are going and how you will feel when you get there is a key component to manifesting your dream life. Do some EPTworks™ to help you determine exactly what your “crazy” is and release it with forgiveness.

  • I forgive myself for believing I have to go “crazy” when “this” happens in my life.
  • I forgive myself for giving up on my dream when “this” happens in my life
  • I forgive myself for letting this situation stop me from focusing on my dream life.
  • I forgive myself for giving up my dreams because of this situation.
  • I forgive my family for feeling uncomfortable with my dreams.
  • I forgive myself for believing I will lose love if I pursue my dreams
  • I give myself permission to let go of the “crazy” and to keep focusing on my dreams.
  • Without this pattern, I am free to be aware of the “crazy” as a sign that I am closer than ever to achieving my dreams and this “crazy” can’t stop me any more.

Become aware of this pattern of distraction in your life and choose to release it with forgiveness and acceptance.

Get ready to see your dreams come true!

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WARNING! Two Things That Stop You From Manifesting Your Dream Life (Part 1)

January 3, 2014 in Business by Annette

So, you know exactly what you want.

You have mapped out your dream life full of all the experiences you still haven’t enjoyed fully. You may even have a fancy vision board with pictures of all the cool stuff you’ve decided to manifest in your life. This is simple, right? All you have to do is keep your focus on your dream long enough and it will eventually appear.

The reality is you have a drawer full of dreams that you have never manifested and it’s been too long. It’s time to take another look at where you are stuck and exactly what is keeping you from driving to your dream destination in life.

Warning! Here’s the first thing that will stop you from manifesting your dream life:

Fear of rejection or failure:

When someone fails to respond favorably to you, it feels terrible to you. This fear probably started when you were little. Someone you love responded to your request or attention with anger or scorn. It was an awful experience for you and you never want to feel that way again. You want only experiences that keep you from feeling the little kid in you that’s still afraid “I’m not good enough.” In other words, you can only handle the experiences where people are turning flips for you and loving everything you do. You just can’t handle the people who don’t understand you and what you do or flat out don’t like you or what you have to give. You are so afraid of this experience that you unconsciously push people or clients away so you don’t have to go through this terrible experience over and over and over again. By pushing people away, you prevent the manifestation of great love relationships. By pushing clients away, you prevent the manifestation of your dream business. Do some EPTworks™ to discover where the root of this fear of rejection exists and forgive.

  • I forgive myself for believing I just can’t handle the terrible experience of a someone not liking me.
  • I forgive myself for believing I can only feel good with clients who adore me and tell me how great I am.
  • I forgive myself for believing I have to push clients away from me so I can avoid this awful experience of rejection.
  • I forgive my parent for rejecting me.
  • I forgive myself for avoiding love relationships because I can’t handle rejection.
  • I forgive myself for letting my fear of the memory of an awful experience attract terrible life partners.
  • I forgive myself for using my client relationships as a way to take away my fear that I’m still not good enough.
  • I give myself permission to have a mindset to “go to give” from the well of wholeness that exists within me that I also see existing in each of my clients whether they reject me or love me.
  • I forgive myself for letting this deep fear that I’m still not good enough cause me to push people away so I won’t get hurt.
  • I forgive myself for letting this deep fear of this terrible experience (rejection) cause me to give up my power to go for my dream.

In next weeks blog, I will tell you what the second thing is that will stop you from manifesting your dream life.

Warning New Students Moving at Light Speed!!

October 2, 2013 in Blog, Business, Emotional Healing, Emotional Healing Training, Forgiveness by Annette

By Sherry Hamilton

I want new students of EPTworks™ to realize that when first learning the bulk of information and new skills needed to practice, you may feel like you are going slow, but you really are going at light-speed and you WILL do amazing things even as a beginner.  I remember leaving my first class almost 20 years ago, and feeling very slow at using the techniques– especially compared with Dr. Annette, the inventor of EPTworks™.  Even though she is my sister, I craved her encouragement that I could “do” EPTworks™ and help others in the way she had helped me.  She was confident that as a new practitioner, I could accomplish amazing outcomes.

The week after my first class I had my first paying client.  She was a 16 year old girl referred by a chiropractor.  The girl sat in front of me and told me her problem, “I sit down at the dinner table.  Then I have to go throw up before I can actually eat.  This has been going on daily for about two years.”  She explained how the doctors had been unable to help her control this.  She had been scoped from both ends, and she was feeling very upset.  She had visible scars on her face and arms.  She had been thrown threw a car windshield two years before and had been through several surgeries as well as still having glass coming out of some of her scars.  This car wreck happened the day before she was going to have an interview at a modeling agency.  The wreck changed the course of her life and the scars from the wreck changed any hope for her to be a model.

I had my EPTworks™ manual opened and my flow charts laying on the table beside her as I wrote down her story.  I began to methodically go through the steps one by one that I had learned a week earlier in class:  “Find It.  Fix It.  Forgive It.”  I remember working for one hour and the idea that she believed her whole life had been ruined because of this car wreck.  I had her repeat, “I forgive myself for believing my whole life is ruined because of this wreck and because I missed out on being a model.”  I kept going with EPTworks™.  Finding imbalance in her emotional body, placing the magnets as directed by the body, directing her to breathe, and then stating specific forgiveness.  She came back one more time a week later.  She said that she had only thrown up one time in that week!  This was a huge improvement from her previous experience, and she was much happier and more relaxed.

It has been almost 20 years since I took my first class to learn how to “do” EPTworks™ for myself and for my children. I attained that goal.  Beyond that I have hundreds to thousands of amazing stories where I got to help others in their healing using my skills with EPTworks™.  “Thank-you” to my sister for teaching and encouraging me to keep on practicing and helping others!!  It is an amazing journey.  And now I get to help others learn how to “do” EPTworks™!!  Thanks again Dr. Annette!

EPTworks™ BusinessWorks is a three-day training that helps you with these three steps to uncover the gold that exists in you and your business right now.

  • Sign up to attend and you will get hands on attention to expand your business.
  • Individual sessions with Dr. Annette Cargioli allows you to break through the invisible barriers that are holding you back
  • Individual sessions with Penny Langely allow you to dream a bigger dream and actually see the reality of your dreams coming true before you leave this three days.
  • This is an exclusive event. We limit our training to no more than 10 people.
  • If you are ready and looking for ways to love your business more and take your success to the next level; EPTworks™ BusinessWorks is for you!

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Three Easy Steps to Super-Grow Your Business

September 25, 2013 in Blog, Business, Emotional Healing by Annette

1) Love your business like it is your best friend.

This is the number one key to having continual growth in your business.  Think about how you feel about your business when it is disappointing you.  Use forgiveness to help you let go of the anger, frustration, depression, low self esteem, fear or sadness that comes up for you when your business isn’t meeting your expectations.  Stop giving up on loving your business when it is struggling.  Decide to love and believe in your business no matter how it may be performing for you.  Love it because it is a gift from God for your life.  Your business has it’s own unique energy signature that is influenced by the love you give it as well as the love others give it.  The more love that is poured into that energy signature, the more it grows in response to give back to you. Just like you would let your best friend offer return love to you, you must allow your business to function this way too.  You must allow gifts of love and money to flow back to you from your business otherwise you will leave your business with the energy of a debt it owes you for all the love you have given.  That debt you create in your business by refusing to receive back (example: paying yourself) takes up space where new business is blocked from entering in.  When you do receive back from your business, you open space where more people can enter in to expand the love for you and your business.  Once you really get this down, loving your business unconditionally, expansion in the form of love, money and new people occurs automatically.

2) You must feel happy and safe to invite money into your life.

This sounds crazy for most people.  Of course I feel safe with money and I would invite it in. People who have the most difficult time manifesting money in their lives usually have one of three problems:

  1. They push money away
  2. They run from money
  3. They don’t feel self love and value.

Your earliest memories around money go with feelings.  If mom and dad were fighting about money, you could believe that money is “the bad guy” that upset my family or made life harder for you.  For every time you heard someone say, “I can’t afford it.”, you saw money as “the bad guy” that doesn’t allow me to be happy or do what I want.  These strong negative emotions you hold with money memories drive your action or behavior with money.  If you have mastered loving your business and it is flowing naturally with money–you may feel an anxiety or fear because you are running away from money.  Even though you invite money in; when it shows up, the negative feelings force your action to push it away.  People who have very little self love or sense of value in themselves tend to only allow money into their lives that belongs to others.  Check what stage of healing you are in with money.  Give money permission to forgive you for running away or pushing it away.  Admit to money, it’s not “the bad guy”.  Forgive yourself for believing money is the “bad guy”.

Invite it into your life to love and appreciate the gifts that it can give you and others.

3) You must commit 100% to your business.

Besides loving your business, you must be ready to fully commit to what is necessary to support your business in all that it may need from you.  This includes time, money, training and just doing your very best.  When you can’t figure it out–what needs to be done now–be willing to get help.  Consult with an expert.  Take risks to grow in what you don’t know if it means making your business better for you, your family and the world.

EPTworks™ BusinessWorks is a three-day training that helps you with these three steps to uncover the gold that exists in you and your business right now.

  • Sign up to attend and you will get hands on attention to expand your business.
  • Individual sessions with Dr. Annette Cargioli allows you to break through the invisible barriers that are holding you back
  • Individual sessions with Penny Langely allow you to dream a bigger dream and actually see the reality of your dreams coming true before you leave this three days.
  • This is an exclusive event. We limit our training to no more than 10 people.
  • If you are ready and looking for ways to love your business more and take your success to the next level; EPTworks™ BusinessWorks is for you!

Next one is in Destin, Florida November 2-4, 2013. Register here to reserve your space!

If Only

July 10, 2013 in Business by Annette

Have you ever had a problem you just couldn’t change?  You know what I’m talking about; stuff like that extra twenty pounds you just can’t seem to keep off or credit card debt that never goes away or a relationship that makes you feel devastated every time you think of it.

For me it was chronic financial stress.  I was constantly worried and focused on money and having enough just to pay for the basics.  I felt a level of anxiety every time I opened my checkbook. I was caught up in the idea that “if only” I could make a certain amount of income, everything in my life would become easier and I then I could be happy.

  • Making money and financial security became my focus, my idol.
  • Money became  my source for the peace and joy I was seeking.
  • I realized I made money and financial security my source instead of God

An idol is a construct or focus you pour energy into because you believe it is a source for what you want: identity, power, love, money, peace, relationships, etc.

Idols separate you from direct, divine connection to God.

The only way to heal any problem is from knowing your divine source.

Because I am loved, valued and worthy, I can heal.

Problems that don’t heal: money problems, chronic dieting, chronic relationship distress, depression and chronic physical problems are very likely a form of idolatry.  You pour loads of energy and attention into a problem in the hope that solving the problem will make you more worthy, more loved, more acceptable.

All your energy and power is poured into this “problem” that never seems to resolve.  It is like a huge tornado that just spins all your excess effort and energy around in a circle, never really moving forward or changing.

It is an idol when it becomes the source to get you what you really want rather than God as the source.

Forgiveness statements:

  • I forgive myself for idolizing money as my source for all I desire.
  • I forgive myself for idolizing what I have (family, house, etc) as the source of my happiness and fulfillment.
  • I forgive myself for idolizing all that I do not have or all that I see others possess as the source of my happiness and fulfillment.
  • I give myself permission to tear down this idol to money and I am no longer separated from all the love, value and worthiness I ever wanted.  It’s already mine.
  • I forgive myself for using this idolatry of family as a source to heal depression and fear that I will never get what I really want in my relationships.
  • I give myself permission to tear down this idol,  and I am free to stop pouring excess energy into an empty tornado of futile discussion and thoughts.
  • Without this idol I am no longer separated from God.

Discover the idols in your life with the phrase, “If only. . . .”

  • I had more money. . . .I would be important and valued
  • I had a better body and was prettier. . . . . .others would love me
  • My marriage was perfect. . . .I could love and accept myself
Please post your comments about the idols you have torn down in your life  and how it has made your life better.

Get What You Want Now

March 1, 2013 in Business by Annette

Get what you want nowWhen my kids were much younger, they would talk about how they wanted to go to visit Disney World.  I had them close their eyes and imagine packing for our trip, going to the airport, getting bumped up to first class, getting all the cookies and drinks they want on the plane, seeing Mickey greet them. You get the idea.  Their faces would relax and light up as they imagined this amazing trip.  I asked them how it feels.  They would sigh and smile and assure me it was an amazing feeling.  It’s that “feeling” of getting what we want as though we already have it that keeps our attention focused on what we want.  Those good “feelings” are actually neural representations in our brain.  To get what you want now, you must create positive neural representations that are the signals that you already have what you want.  You have to imagine it with good feelings.

Create new neural representations to remind you of “what you want now”. This is where you are driving to. What do you see, hear and feel when you get where you are going and get what you want now?

This is to remind you to keep your attention on where you are going and how you will look, how good you will feel and what you will hear when you get there.

Remember, you have a destination in mind for your life and business.  You have to “drive”, take action to get from where you are to where you are going.  You can no longer allow the current or past trauma to take all of your attention.

Failure in a previous life situation can no longer keep you stranded on the side of the road staring and feeling afraid and helpless.  Hurt or humiliation from childhood can no longer take away your license to drive where you have chosen to go.

God has given you the keys to drive, to choose what you want to do with your life, to choose where you put your attention.  It is time to use that power God has given to you to decide exactly where you are going and then to put your attention on why you are going there, what you will do there and how you will feel there.

Show yourself the same compassion God has shown you when you feel stuck staring at the wreck on the side of the road.  Give the wreck a blessing and get back in the car and drive because you don’t have to stay here anymore.  You get to go to a new place that offers you more pleasure and life fulfillment and freedom.  It is in going from here to there; you get to experience more of the power of God’s love for you and that is really what you want right now. 

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First you have to know what you want and get committed to your dream.

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Now comes the art of manifesting.  It’s an amazing journey with clear concise steps to your dream.

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Finally, the most important thing you must know to continually manifest unlimited wealth in your life.

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Vows That Sabotage Your Success

February 27, 2013 in Blog, Business, Emotional Healing, Forgiveness by Annette

Photo by Jenn Ocken Photography

 

Going against a vow can create internal conflict within oneself and external conflict with the one you may hold the vow with.  Margaret Lynch teaches how vows or promises we take unconsciously keep you from living the life of your dreams.  In her course, 7 Levels of Abundance she shares insights taken from the Rhys Method. I found this list of negative vows to be very useful in using EPTworks to eliminate the conflicts that drive your sabatage behavior.

1) Negative vows of loyalty and rebellion to your family paradigm.
“My vow of loyalty to my parents and how they never got the reward of money in their lives, means I will never get the reward or really feel deserving of the reward.”

2) Negative vows to deny my own needs and desires.
“My vow to never honor my needs, to never have a need, to never be vulnerable like that again.  My vow to never feel my needs, to take care of it by myself, so no one can hurt me and won’t be disappointed.”

3) Negative vows to be invisible or appropriate.
“My vow to never be like them, to never speak up or take action that you can criticize me for.”

4) Negative vows to be perfect before I can be deserving.
“My vows to know better, to always do better.  My vows to never enjoy the rewards of my achievements unless I am perfect.”

5) Negative vows to never speak my truth.
“My vow to never speak the truth of who I am and what I am capable of, what people need from me.  My vow to never speak honestly about what I am good at.

6) Negative vows limit my view to see the world as dark and dangerous.
“My vow to see my life and world only through my fears so that I an unable to fully commit.”

7) Negative vows to see limitation in God’s love for me.
“My vow that I am insignificant to God, so there is no divine support in my life.”

Many of us hold on to one or several of these negative vows, and until we get past them, they may continue to sabotage the success that we want to have.  Think about some of these vows that you may hold and forgive yourself for holding on and sabotaging your success.

 

Are You Living Your Dream?

February 25, 2013 in Blog, Business, Emotional Healing, Emotional Healing Training by Annette

Guest writer, Penny Langley, reflects on some of her experiences at EPTworks BusinessWorks Retreat.  Read and live the dream:

EPTworks Leadership Council from left: Jenn, Penny, Linda, Annette, Rhonda, Sherry

A rainbow greets us as we mount the top of the hill in beautiful Ocho Rios.  What does a Chiropractor, weight loss consultant, photographer, marriage counselor, massage therapist, and meditative techniques consultant have in common? We are living our Dream! Today, our “work” involves overcoming personal fears, letting go of stress and worries, and living in the now. Our mission for the day…TO CLIMB A WATERFALL…and get this…it’s in Jamaica!! Holding hands as a sign of support and unity, we take step after slippery step along moss covered rocks as we make the steep upward climb. We stop along the way to take time to play, using rocks as water slides, diving into pools of water and receiving water massages in a way that only nature can deliver…from water rushing over the falls.  

Why is this possible? We are all enjoying the financial growth of our businesses, companies WE own…the careers of our dreams!   Our success has been enhanced by BizWorks, a business course that facilitates you through the learning process of business visioning, sales projections, budget preparation and the creation of a business plan.  In BizWorks you will also receive a private EPT consultation with Dr. Annette Cargioli, the developer of a revolutionary healing system that will align your energy systems with personal and business success.  

It’s an amazing story.  Make it YOUR story.  Sign up for BizWorks today.  Live the Dream!   

 

Penny Langley

Chief Inspiration Officer, Healing Gardens Studio One

-guest writer

 

 

I Can’t Get Out Of Debt!

February 21, 2013 in Blog, Business, Emotional Healing, Emotional Healing Training, Forgiveness by Annette

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There is a powerlessness about debt that is tangible.  There is a sense of suffering, guilt and not having enough in the experience of owing more than we can pay.  Debt is just money we owe.  It can be eliminated by paying the money we owe.  The debt is not our problem.  It is the way we feel about the debt that creates the suffering.  Once we enter that state of suffering, guilt and emptiness, it becomes impossible to take power over debt in our lives.  These negative feelings about money and debt usually come from childhood.  We absorb the feelings our parents hold about money and debt.

Many of us had debt transferred to us as children when it was implied that we owed for what we could never pay back from what has been given to us–clothes, food, gas, our house.  We were made to feel guilty for mom or dad working very hard just to pay for our things.  We took on beliefs that “I’m not enough” or “I’m not worth it”.  There is a sense of a debt I can never pay back, no matter what I earn or produce.  I will always feel this guilt, shame and powerlessness with the money I have because I still owe for my childhood.

The debt you must release is the debt your parents or you hold against yourself from childhood and all you were given.  This is the debt you can never pay.  You have created money debt in your life so you can continually be in the state of paying it off, in hopes to alleviate the guilt and suffering of the past.  The truth is, you can repay or resolve a money debt.  However, the debts from our childhood and emotional debts can never be repaid with money but only resolved through forgiveness.  Think about what exists in your life, besides financial debt, that you feel indebted with.  Maybe you are just trying to pay off an old debt that can only be resolved through forgiveness.  Use your power to let go of the debts in your life that can’t be resolved with money and see how easily you can get out of debt.

To feel better about your debt, read these statements aloud and inhale and exhale after each statement:

  • I forgive myself for believing I can’t get out of debt.
  • I forgive myself for believing I have to feel guilty, ashamed or unworthy because I have financial debt.
  • I forgive myself for believing by putting my attention on financial debt, I can take away feelings of guilt and shame from childhood.
  • I forgive myself for believing that money is the only debt I owe.
  • I forgive myself for believing I can’t let go of the bad feelings until I am debt free.
  • I forgive myself for believing I will always be in debt to my parents for what they gave me.
  • I forgive myself for holding myself in debt to my parents out of loyalty.
  • I forgive my parents for making me a debtor.
  • I forgive my parents for shaming me for having blessings in my life they worked hard for.
  • I forgive my parents for shaming me about money.
  • I forgive my parents for blaming me for their debt.
  • I give my parents permission to forgive me for blaming them.
  • I give my parents permission to forgive me for all debt I owe them.
  • I give my parents permission to forgive me for costing money.

These are a few forgiveness statements to help you let go of the debt you can not pay.
Enjoy and let me know what you think!